Bonjour, Hello

I can’t help myself, when I hear an English accent while I’m out shopping, I automatically orientate towards the person speaking. And, usually, because I make eye contact and smile, get a response. And thus I start either a brief chat with another English speaker, sharing a few moments. On occasion I’ve even spent an hour or two talking to someone, usually a visitor to our fair City.

Like the last couple of days. I just happened to arrive at my bus stop as a fraught woman came rushing up to me and in French, while waving her phone in my face, tells me the bus would not stop here and that I needed to walk to the next stop and, before I’d even formed a response, she was off walking down the sidewalk. But right behind her, bemused at her antics, were a couple who came up and asked me what she’d said.

I began to explain and, one sentence in, the woman interrupted me and said, “Oh, you’re English?” Well, yes, it’s true when I start speaking French I some how end up speaking with, of all things, a Lancashire accent. I know, I’m weird. The conversation then proceeded in English, and no, before you ask, not with an accent.

Anyway, an hour later after I ended up riding the bus with them all the way to the mall, I left them there to go off shopping, while I then took another bus home. And now, I’m sitting here smiling at yet another happy encounter with a complete stranger that resulted in a swap of names and addresses and a promise to write an email.

If nothing more comes of it, and most never write, it was another day blessed with a moment of connection. And I’m okay with that.

8 Adult Things I Do

I have a mammogram every other year
Post menopause, and past having kids, I hope, I still go regularly for my pap smears and mammogram, but now, I do them every couple of years (as recommended). Believe me, Ladies, this is not something you should skip, ever.

I go to bed early
As in, I mean, by 10:30 pm every night. Nothing to do with a pandemic and everything being closed, and more to do with a change in life-style choices and, as I’m not as young as I once was, I no longer want to go out late at night. Doesn’t matter if I’m reading a good book, I’m in bed by 10:30.

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The Simple Life

I try to keep my life simple and, for the most part, it works. I have my routines that, if not followed, end up leaving me out of sorts and yes, even grumpy sometimes. And no, that’s nothing to do with my no longer drinking coffee—something I had to do cold turkey on orders of my doctor. You wouldn’t have liked me during those first few days/weeks … oh boy, no.

But where was I? Oh, yes, routines. I get up at roughly the same time every morning, 7:45, when my iWatch quietly chimes at me. And yes, it’s enough to wake me. Most morning I step in the shower even before I brush my teeth. It’s the one thing guaranteed to wake me up. I have something of a leisurely breakfast compared to most, including the OH, who never allows enough time to get themselves organised before heading out the door for work.

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My Nomenclature Habit

I don’t know about you, but I have a terrible habit. One I’ve had since I was knee high to the proverbial grasshopper. I name things. And who doesn’t, right?

I mean, I name just about everything. What started with teddy bears and the like, moved to other things growing up till I hit adulthood and then? It moved from favourite childhood toys to grown-ups toys, namely, phones, fridges, cars. You know what I mean. Go on, you do it too, don’t blush. We all do it to a certain extent.

Phones have become the most inventive of the nomenclature I’ve started and has been wildly fun over the years. What started simply as Mister Beep, my first phone, moved swiftly to Noisy Parker, and then, my first flip phone—and oh how I loved that Nokia phone and that feeling I had just arrived on the set of Star Trek!

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Duh!

Don’t you just love that awkward feeling when you stop and ask Siri what the temperature is outside and then, realise with dismay that, you’re in the kitchen and Siri is in the bedroom …