7 Random Facts About Me

So, are you ready to be bored dazzled by 7 Random Facts about me? Probably not, but here we go anyway.

FACT #1 : I was in the military.

Yeah, and I survived! Ha! Ha! I did 8 years in the Women’s Royal Air Force, to be exact, as an Air Traffic Controller. Does that fact scare you knowing I was in charge? Well, okay, maybe not in-charge and it was military fighter jets, not passenger flights, that we landed!

FACT #2 : I jumped out of a hovering helicopter over the sea.

Not once, or twice, but several times. No, really! See, this one ties in with being in the military. We got to do some really stupid things, like this. But it was all in the interest of teaching Search and Rescue techniques to SARs Crews, and survival (that would be me, bobbing around in frigid waters) — yes, we had survival suits on.

FACT #3 : I was a qualified Netball Referee.

See, I bet you never saw that one coming either. Ha! Again, this is the kind of thing you get up to, while in the military. I had to go to London to train and then, had an exam. Yeah, for netball!

FACT #4 : I’ve been to, London, Paris, Rome, Berlin, and New York.

Okay, now don’t laugh, as I kid I was fascinated by those glossy perfume ads in magazines that featured these seemingly, exotic cities. So I had this thing about wanting to visit them all, and I did. Thanks Mum!

FACT #5 : Growing up I wanted to be a marine biologist.

Yeah, I  know, go figure. It was watching all those TV shows featuring one of my dad’s heroes, Jacque Cousteau, that started it, that and I love the ocean. I’m convinced I’m part mermaid or was a tardigrade in another life. The water and I are best buddies.

FACT #6 : I love to cook.

This one is in homage to my mother. And while I don’t know if I’m as good a cook as her, I know I learnt a great deal from her. I do all the cooking here, and I’m always trying new things and tweaking recipes to suit my taste buds. I do love me some spicy food and love my herbs. I cannot imagine life without bay leaves.

FACT #7 : I still have my childhood teddy bear.

It’s a small Steiff Bear and if the apartment was burning down, that would be the first thing I would grab and save. My dad bought it for me when he found out my mum was pregnant with me. There is nothing more precious to me.

Now it’s your turn to share 7 random facts with us all. Go on, you know you want to.

A Guide to Emoji Reactions

As seen elsewhere, on social media, I thought to share my guide to emoji reactions.

  • 👍 — I acknowledge your post but I have nothing further to add / ok, will do
  • 😂 — That’s funny as hell
  • ♥️ — Thanks from the bottom of my heart
  • 🙃 — The emoji equivalent of ¯\(ツ)
  • 😍 — I’m so happy / in love with this
  • 🥰 — This makes me feel all squee inside
  • 💯 — Hard agree
  • 👀 — What the actual …

And you, what are your go-to emojis online?

Blog Challenge: TV Show Edition

Following in Joel’s footsteps, I thought to tackle the Blog Challenge: TV Show Edition, especially as I have watched a lot of TV shows in my time.

So, here we go, wish me luck.

What TV character from a beloved show do you wish you could be best friends with in real life?

I’m sat here staring at a blinking cursor thinking about all the myriad shows I’ve watched over the years and wonder who, out of all the shows watched, would I want to be best friends with? And it’s like, what, I can only pick one? Really, are you kidding me?

Well, of course it’s an impossible task. But … when push comes to shove it’s comes down to who would I have the most fun with and, the answer is … drum roll please …

The Doctor. Any of them, but more specifically, if I were to pick one out of all, it would be the eleventh Doctor played by Matt Smith who, out of all of them, captured my heart. Though I have to say, the latest incarnation, played by Ncuti Gatwa, is a really really close second.

I mean, can you imagine all the adventures you would have zooming around the universe with one of them in the Tardis? Priceless.

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Blog Challenges: 10 Pointless Facts

David from over at Forking Mad has challenged us to share 10 Pointless Facts with everyone and, as everyone seems to be on a challenge kick these last few weeks, me included, I thought, why not.

Do you floss your teeth?

Yes, religiously every night before bed. Doesn’t everyone?

Tea, coffee, or water?

Tea.

Footwear preference?

Flip flops. Except in winter then it’s boots baby, boots all the way.

Favourite dessert?

Lemon merengue pie.

The first thing you do when you wake up?

Honey, I’m old. I pee, doesn’t everyone?

Age you’d like to stick to?

Maybe somewhere in my late 20s.

How many hats do you own?

Way to many, and I mean dozens.

Describe the last photo you took

I hunkered down to about ground level to snap a beautiful cluster of primulas in full bloom.

Worst TV show?

The one I watched last night … Lioness. Utter load of twaddle.

As a child, what was your aspiration for adulthood?

To be either a marine biologist or, an astronaut. I did eventually study earth science at university level, but as of now, have yet to make it into space. Maybe I’ll have them poot me into space when I’m dead?

And now, it’s your turn. Pop on over to David’s blog and join us in answering 10 pointless questions, or maybe, make your own up.

Answering Quick Fire Questions

Okay, another challenge that, well, isn’t a challenge, more a ‘Hey, you wanna to do this fun quiz?’ kind of thing. This one was stolen from Thomas Rigby whose answers to these questions made me laugh.

So here we are, answering another quiz/challenge/tag and why not, they’re silly fun. Join in if you want to, or not. The choice is yours.

Would you live in Chicago?

Are you kidding? It’s colder there than here in Quebec City. No.

Aren’t people who turn off Read status on WhatsApp fundamentally a bit sinister?

Huh, what’s what?

Do you fold or scrunch your toilet paper?

Oh, honey, you poor thing. Fold … fold all the way. Who the hell wants sh*t on their fingers?

If you had to be in a committed 18-month live-in relationship with one of the following former Liverpool football managers, which one would you choose:

  • Rafael Benítez
  • Roy Hodgson
  • Kenny Dalglish
  • Graeme Souness
  • Roy Evans
  • Brendan Rodgers

Bobby Charlton, what, wait, no, who?

Have you ever slapped anyone?

Yes.

Coke or Pepsi?

Water.

Babies or toddlers?

Only when well seasoned.

Who was the best Spice Girl?

The spiced what now?

Are there too many podcasts?

Yes.

Costa, Nero, Starbucks, Pret — what’s your ranking?

I don’t drink coffee.

How many people do you trust enough to lend £200 to?

None.

How many people in your family would turn down a peerage?

Too late …

Which is the most basic Monopoly piece?

The iron.

When was the last time you blocked a toilet?

Eww … never.

And, there you go, another glimpse into my exciting life … not! Now, off you go, answer these on your own, or not.

Blog Question Challenge: Technology Edition

I was tagged by the lovely Ariadne over at Noisy Deadline to answer the Technology Questions Challenge.

Never one to turn down a good challenge …

When did you first get interested in technology?

I would have to say almost at the same time I was starting to read and write. Growing up with two older brothers and a dad who loved to tinker with, well, everything. I learnt a lot about what went on inside radios. And I’m not talking the kind you might be thinking about. But something your grandma might have had back in the day. Those Bakelite behemoths that side on people’s sideboards back in the 50s. Ones that, when you undid the back to look inside, housed vacuum sealed valves that glowed and hummed.

I was endlessly fascinated by how all those weird looking items, together, allowed you to tune into “radio” waves that bounced around the world in the ether.

Fast forward what feels like several decades and those radios were supplanted by a whole host of gadgets. I’m really not afraid of getting inside the guts of a machine, and or getting my hands dirty. But these days? It’s more about coding or tweaking than actually playing with a computer’s innards. I’ll leave that to the experts.

What’s Your Favourite Piece Of Technology All-Time?

My first radio? My first car? My first computer? Hmm … I would have to go way back to when I was about 7 years old and say the first long wave radio my dad bought me one birthday. I had that for years and years. I loved that radio, I loved how it put me in contact with the four corners of my tiny universe, able to listen to programmes and music from anywhere I could tune in a signal. I loved it so much, I went to bed with that thing.

What’s Your Favourite Piece Of Technology Right Now?

Hmm … that’s got to be a toss up between my iPad air and my aging iMac. Both of which I use constantly, though, of course, these days, don’t go to bed with. Now that would be awkward if not, a little uncomfortable.

Name One New Cool Piece Of Technology We’ll Have In 25 Years!

As a huge Star Trek fan, I would love to think that besides the first flip phone, inspired by ST, we could have maybe more medical tech like a bio-bed or tricorder, or less invasive surgery. Though maybe not a phaser or the transporter tech, no thanks. I’m with Dr. McCoy when it comes to transporters, you wouldn’t get me in one for love nor money.

Final thoughts.

Well, that was fun taking a quick trip down memory lane. My thanks again to Ariadne for nominating me.

Blog Challenges: Music Edition

I’ve been tapped by one of my favourite writers, Annie over on Annie’s blog, to share my fav music picks. 🎶

This ain’t going to be easy, choosing just five top albums and songs but, here goes nothing.

What are five of your favourite albums?

  1. Folklore, Taylor Swift (2020)
  2. Abraxas, Santana (1970)
  3. Madman Across the Water, Elton John (1971)
  4. The Dreaming, Kate Bush (1982)
  5. Hunky Dory, David Bowie, (1971)

Honourable Mentions

  1. Tubular Bells, Mike Oldfield (1973)
  2. Close to the Edge, Yes (1972)
  3. Emerson, Lake & Palmer, Emerson, Lake & Palmer (1970)
  4. Days of Future Passed, Moody Blues (1967)
  5. The Kick Inside, Kate Bush (1978)
  6. Hounds of Love, Kate Bush (1985)

What are five of your favourite songs?

  1. Running up that Hill, Kate Bush
  2. The Man Who Sold The Moon, David Bowie
  3. Sorry Seems to Be The Hardest Word, Elton John
  4. Exile, Taylor Swift
  5. Sanctuary, Serena Ryder

Favourite instrument(s)?

Violin and Piano

What song or album are you currently listening to?

Pvris by Pvris

Do you listen to the radio? If so, how often?

I haven’t listened to the radio in ages.

How often do you listen to music?

Every. Single. Day!

How often do you discover music? And how do you discover music?

Weekly, I would say. Online, through people I know on Social Media, and through partaking in challenges like this one.

What’s a song or album have you enjoy that you wish had more recognition?

Probably loads but, right now, off the top of my head, I can’t think of a single one.

What’s your favourite song of all time?

This has to be the dumbest question anyone has ever asked me and impossible to answer.

Has your taste in music evolved over the years?

Yes, of course it has. But I still have a preference for female singers and vocals and big belting ballads. But I’ll pretty much listen to anything, and give it a go.

And you, what are you top five albums and songs?

Why I Write

I’ve been writing for as long as I’ve been reading. All thanks to both parents who were both avid readers, though very different kind of books. My mother mostly read romances and historical family sagas — think, Thorn Birds. My father, on the other hand, who use to take us weekly to the library, would go to the new section of recent arrivals and pick 6 of the biggest books he could find. I’m not kidding. It didn’t matter what they were. Non-fiction, fiction, historical, or sci-fi. He’d read it all. And it was his passion and love of reading that also spilled over in to us being taught at very early ages how to form our letters.

I was smitten. From the minute I realised I could make words with these strange looking letters and make sentences, like: the cat sat on the mat. I was creating my own stories and, when old enough, making them into little books.

From that point on, I always wrote, at least that is when I wasn’t reading, and despite my early choices of leaving home at 17 to join the military, I still managed to do not one, but 2 degrees (you know, because I loved writing) and, by a strange twist of fate, ended up working for over 25+ years in the print and publishing trade after leaving the military. A trade that fed my need to both read and to write.

All the while I worked in these trades, I wrote articles, create publications and e-zines, and even full-on magazines, till print become difficult, due to costs. At which point, I went online like so many. And the rest, they say, is history.

I ran two different websites curating fiction for both the sci-fi lover (The SF Hub) and for the discerning lesbian (Kissed By Venus) who wanted to read both good fiction, but also read reviews and interviews with the authors and publishers. I also curated two on-demand print quarterly magazines for both websites, which turned out to be an awful lot of work, but also, great fun to do at the time.

I haven’t stopped writing and have never looked back from that very early age after being encouraged by my parents to just do it.


Footnote: At once point back in 2012, I calculated just how many words (roughly) I might have written over those intervening years, and shocked myself when it came out at over 2 million. A conservative estimate. Don’t ask me how many words I’ve written since then.